Hi, I am pregnant with DC2 20 weeks, second scan this afternoon (!), my DD will be 14 months when DC2 is born. When I went for my booking appointment midwife went through my birth notes and talked about the haemorrhage and how I would have to see a consultant about it. TBH I dont really remember too much about the haemorrhage I was in shock from having a quick birth 2 weeks before due date, when I was expecting 24-48 hours of rolling around on a birthing ball shouting at my husband for massages. They put me on a drip for fluids, but I got to go home the next day. Maybe I was a bit naive about it, but it stopped bleeding on it's own and I just thought it was normal to bleed a bit after birth.
My labour was 3.5hours start to finish, I was supposed to have a homebirth because my hospital don't allow stepchildren into the delivery room. We ended up in hospital anyway when my waters went they told me to come in. No one really knows why they made me do that as I was having contractions every bloody mintue and the car ride was hell.
DH is not inf avour of homebirth because of the haemorrhage, and what I would do if I was on my own with DD. He thinks giving birth in hospital with a planned induction is the safest and best option. But I've read all sorts of horror stories about inductions and the need for intervention. I must say DH is leaving it up to me what I do but I do need to respect his concerns.
If I have a homebirth and then a haemorrhage would they jsut not blue light me to hospital if I was really that bad?
As anyone got any advice for me before I see the consultant in a week or two's time? I am really torn as what to do, that is best for DC2, DD and me.