Ive just been to my midwife appt at 34 weeks with dc 2, we discussed birth of ds1 and I got quite tearful, in many ways I don't feel my experience was horrific as I hear for some people and now feel a bit silly. The mw recommended and booked me for a consultant debrief of last labour and planning of this one. Has anyone had this and found it useful? Don't want to feel like I'm wasting their time...