Just wrote long post and lost it-grrr!
39+5 with Dc2, DS was born at 40+8 after a sweep. Very definite strong contractions from start.
This time, baby is 3/5 engaged but completely OP. I have had lots of false labour signs, usually in evening-strong and painful Braxton hicks that stop again, lots of period cramping on and off. This has been happening for a week. Lost plug of mucus 2 weeks ago.
So, is is false labour common for all second babies? Is it worse because baby is op? Might it continue for a long time and me never go into labour naturally? I REALLY don't want to be induced with OP baby. Am scared enough after hearing the horror stories as it is 
I know no-one can say for sure, just want to hear others experiences...