I booked in yesterday and discussed delivery which the ob and I agreed would be ELCS (my 3rd) however he was extremely put out that I won't agree to tubal ligation at the time of delivery. He impressed the many risks which I agreed I was aware of but wasn't ready to close that door just yet. He got more exasperated and basically said that if I attempted a 4th/5th baby then it would be a disaster and both I and the baby would probably die.
now I'm a surgical nurse so know the contraindications of repeated surgery, but surely there must be some of you out there who aren't dead following multiple sections?!? Victoria Beckham for one, and I'm far more robust fat than her.... Thanks if you got this far :-)