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Childbirth

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feelings after the big event

7 replies

Mummyofmax · 09/10/2010 14:40

hi
how did everyone feel after birth? i have a beautiful daughter but feel exhausted, ache etc.
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littlewish · 09/10/2010 14:51

I felt as if I had been run over by a bus, exhausted, aching all over, I couldn't stand up straight for a while and a strange empty feeling! but oh so happy and proud! I remember it all so clearly and my Ds2 is 10!!!

Congratulations! Smile

Xavielli · 09/10/2010 14:59

Asthough I'd run a marathon.
Pleased that the pain was over.
Incredibly proud.
Saggy.

ThatDamnDog · 09/10/2010 15:03

My first was a section and I felt physically wrecked and emotionally wobbly but happy. My second was a vaginal birth after a really rubbish pregnancy and I felt physically amazing by comparison, loads of energy and kind of high. But both times sore, saggy, bruised etc. It wears off - by which time the exhaustion hits! Congrats!

Nickoka · 09/10/2010 15:14

Shocked, bruised and a bit numb emotionally. Took me about 6 weeks to feel more connected again.

Second birth so much better.

mrspear · 09/10/2010 15:18

I felt shocked and could not move off the labour bed for a couple of hours.

But i gave birth at 30 weeks and didn't even hold my baby Sad It felt so unreal.

mrspear · 09/10/2010 15:19

Congrats on the birth of your beautiful DD

Mummyofmax · 09/10/2010 15:28

thanks all
i feel wonderful having such a gorgeous girl but...
my stomach still aches a bit, slight headache, eyes dont feel attached and generally rubbish. sure its all normal but i suffer from anxiety so worry about everything
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