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SUPERVISED CONTACT WORRIES

4 replies

hoomahu · 08/09/2025 18:17

hello all,

hoping someone out there can help.

Fathers been abusive to me and my son - he's been granted 2 hours a month supervised contact in a contact centre.

its the second visit and my son refers to him as "man"

But has today started to sing "Daddy's my favourite over and over"

I definitely think this is his dad , as my son is 2 and a half years old and he doesn't make the connection and doesn't know what it means he just calls him man.

Who can I report this too ? Manipulative behaviour ? Will they take me seriously ?

Thanks for your help !!!

OP posts:
Mrsttcno1 · 08/09/2025 18:25

What is the concern you have OP? If supervised contact, who is supervising as they would be able to say if there were issues?

hoomahu · 08/09/2025 21:31

Mrsttcno1 · 08/09/2025 18:25

What is the concern you have OP? If supervised contact, who is supervising as they would be able to say if there were issues?

hello it is a volunteer -

OP posts:
Duck12 · 11/09/2025 06:02

I don’t think there is an issue tbh. Toddlers say all sorts of things-I think you must let it go over your head as irritating as it is and stay calm, don’t allow this to upset you.

ExecutiveRubber · 20/09/2025 20:43

hoomahu · 08/09/2025 21:31

hello it is a volunteer -

The volunteer should be reporting back to Social Care, and should be keeping notes...

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