Sister in law she has such a dislike for me it’s unreal. She is getting married this year she has given out her roles to all the family sister’s brother in laws mum dad and all of the children 2 flowers and 3 page boys my youngest daughter who is here biological niece will be a flower girl the roles are usher to bridesmaid’s flower girls etc. My oldest daughter is 16 she is from a previous relationship but my partner treats her like his own me and my daughter are the only immediate family not given a role now me I can understand we are not close she hates me which is fine you don't have to like everyone, I just wanted a bit of advise I don’t want to go to this wedding because she has singled out my daughter because we are the only one’s without a role we will be sat alone also. Am I being out of order or is she??? My partner has spoken to her and said he thinks she is out of order she cried and said I have enough money to buy the dress so he said he would buy it she then changed that to their is not enough room at the alter although she is getting married in the biggest church In our city