Please help if you can. My 14 year old daughter has really gone off the rails. Her dad died when I was pregnant and I have a very long term partner who she sees as a dad. He doesn't live with us. Over the past year her behaviour has really gone downhill. She has been vaping in her room, stealing, asking me for money and when I refuse she kicks and punches me, spits in my face or breaks stuff. She has been expelled from school for violence and bullying. Police are involved as are social services who don't really help, just lock her up for a bit and talk to her. Its like she changed overnight from a lovely well mannered girl to a monster. She's now staying out all night and told me she has been taking drugs and has been having sex with a man of 31. She laughs and says she can do whatever she likes and nobody can stop her. I am at the end of my rope and I can't get any proper help, social services said foster carers won't take her and GPs are reluctant to medicate. I honestly feel like a failure as a mother right now.