The thread I was looking for was posted by a mum whose DD had something about her face which was different and the mum was looking for book recommendations to help her have confidence as she embarked on her teen years. I have used the search function but can't remember words/category accurately enough to narrow it down.
I was going to share this link with her
fb.watch/386jX5OB4y/
It is an adult with a different face, I don't know if it would resonate with her dd given he is an adult male, but the OP would be better judge of that. The thing I thought might chime with her is when he talks about how he thought his face would affect his life but his fears were unfounded, he has clearly done a lot of thinking and I suppose the fact that he is on the other side might be hopeful for the DD, as he recognises that his personal qualities are more important.
Anyway, I'm going to leave it here in case it is helpful to anyone or she sees it.