My daughter has suffered a parental divorce, over 10 yrs ago now. Her father and I split, he was violent, i left. Its all coming out of her now and after endless fights, arguments and spells living with her nan, hopefully she is now sticking to an appt with a counsellor. Our relationship has all but cease to exist. Over the years i have tried everything. She hates me, does not communicate and will not let me help her. It has torn my mother and I apart and i feel i am out of options and have no-one to turn to. My daughter is back living with my mum for now and counselling starts soon i hope. I really need help and advice as to what i do to fix this. I am out of ideas. Help!