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AnnChlo · 04/10/2025 14:19

Help me out please?

I just found out my daughter’s dad has been driving around with NO license, no tax, no insurance, or anything!!! I’ve been in the car with him plenty of times and didn’t even know, he didn’t tell me either, and our daughter has been with us whilst he’s been driving around!! I’m so pissed off that he never told me, a very close friend of mine has told me to report him to the police, but I don’t have it in my heart to call the police on him even though we no longer get on , he’s an absolute C*nt! But what do I do? He’s blocked me on all social media, and my mobile number… so I can’t even talk to him. Should I report him? Or not?? Help me out please

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AnnChlo · 04/10/2025 15:21

Curledup14 · 04/10/2025 15:21

Ok so clearly the past 4 years haven’t been a bed of roses

not even close

No, but we don’t block each other daily like you stated.

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JohnofWessex · 04/10/2025 15:22

Given what has just happened

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c3e7yyjw77qo

Your daughter is clearly 'at risk'

I suggest that you need to take legal advice about contact with her father asap

Marcus Fakana is wearing a dark suit, white shirt, and tie stands indoors against a beige wall. He is facing the camera with his hands clasped in front of him. A door and light switch are visible on either side.

Marcus Fakana: Teen jailed in Dubai dies in London police chase

Marcus Fakana, who was jailed for having sex with a 17-year-old girl, dies after a pursuit in Tottenham.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c3e7yyjw77qo

Curledup14 · 04/10/2025 15:22

We’ve been absolutely fine for 4 years lol, he was shouting, swearing, saying nasty things to me last weekend, and I didn’t deserve any of it

so it was all great but he didn’t come to your appointments? You kept him off the birth cert? Sounds blissful

AnnChlo · 04/10/2025 15:24

Curledup14 · 04/10/2025 15:22

We’ve been absolutely fine for 4 years lol, he was shouting, swearing, saying nasty things to me last weekend, and I didn’t deserve any of it

so it was all great but he didn’t come to your appointments? You kept him off the birth cert? Sounds blissful

Well I wasn’t allowed to put him on the birth certificate? With out him there? He didn’t show up, I can’t help that? That was down to him to show up. I’m in the UK I don’t know if it’s different elsewhere but if dad isn’t there to register baby I wasn’t allowed to put his name down??

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Curledup14 · 04/10/2025 15:36

AnnChlo · 04/10/2025 15:24

Well I wasn’t allowed to put him on the birth certificate? With out him there? He didn’t show up, I can’t help that? That was down to him to show up. I’m in the UK I don’t know if it’s different elsewhere but if dad isn’t there to register baby I wasn’t allowed to put his name down??

Oh this just all sounds like so much drama

hopefully will have eased up a tiny bit by the time the poor child becomes more aware

warmapplepies · 04/10/2025 15:38

AnnChlo · 04/10/2025 15:12

Oh wow really?? Gosh, I’m a little nervous to phone the police?

You don’t need to ring them, you can report it online.

montston · 04/10/2025 15:44

AnnChlo · 04/10/2025 15:08

All done, and reported.

It tells you on the crime stoppers website to contact the police for driving offences and the DVLA re tax.

Roodlegum · 05/10/2025 13:50

Curledup14 · 04/10/2025 15:36

Oh this just all sounds like so much drama

hopefully will have eased up a tiny bit by the time the poor child becomes more aware

Unlikely

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