I just found out from my 12 year old son that he witnessed a bullying incident after school a few days ago. Apparently the police were at his school about it today. He says he wasn't spoken to by the police but his head of year asked him about it and got him to identify the perpetrators from photographs. I'm quite shocked by all this and wondering why school have not said anything to me about it. Is that normal?! My son is also autistic and it just feels wrong that they spoke to him about this without telling me, even if he didn't speak directly to the police.