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Bullying within a group

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Gilly89 · 27/12/2022 23:10

I’m looking for some advice. I was in a WhatsApp group which gradually got bitchier towards me, so I decided to leave the group. After I left one girl decided to create drama and accuse me of lying about something. I made the mistake of telling someone something personal in that group which co incidentally just happened to get back to the others just as I left the group. The person who removed me assured me there would be no bother yet I got abusive and nasty texts from this girl and others and no support from the friend who I thought had my back. What’s more, they know she’s lying but are covering for her. The girl is dangerous and is projecting her lies onto me and gaslighting me. I feel deeply betrayed and didn’t even want to be in this group in first place as the group is hugely based on gossip. How do I move on from someone who’s trying to ruin my name? Is this gang mentality common?

Thanks

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Whowhatwherewhenwhynow · 28/12/2022 00:00

Block them all, don’t engage with them at all. That’s all you can do.

sounds like an awful group.

Gilly89 · 28/12/2022 09:40

Whowhatwherewhenwhynow · 28/12/2022 00:00

Block them all, don’t engage with them at all. That’s all you can do.

sounds like an awful group.

Thanks. The thing that’s frustrating is it was like they were looking for drama. I was probably the quietest so an easy target there.

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