As the title suggests i'm just really confused. I'm expecting DS1 in December and am trying to work out feeding etc. I'm intending to BF but want to have a pump so i can express as DH really wants to get involved. I was fairly sold on the Avent electric pump, but have read a few bad reviews and have also just seen the Spectra3 which has good reviews. Are either of these as good as they sound? Or should i be looking at others? I really like the Avent bottles etc so want to make sure whatever i get works with them, which i think the Spectra said it does. I've been reading about open and closed systems and am totally confused - from what i've read closed sounds more hygenic but none of the pumps i'm looking at seem to specify what they are - how do i find out? If it's open collection how do i make sure the motor stays clean? Agghhhhhhhhh