my boobs aren't mine anymore

[BackOffMargery]

I am still BFing DD, who is 10 months.
I feed her about 4 times a day, sometimes more. She always wants a quick glug if she is upset and it is the quickest way to get her asleep.
She still wakes once or twice in the night for a drink.

But, she is constantly sticking her hands down my top into my cleavage and rootling around in there. As I am not very good at keeping her nails short I have lots of scratches and she grabs great chunks of boob when feeding. OW.

Also - I wasn't sure whether I should post this here or in "relationships" - I just don't feel comfortable with OH touching my boobs. I feel like they are for feeding not fondling. We are hardly intimate anymore and I don't know whether this is to do with BFing.

Has anyone felt the same?

Yes. I didn't like DH touching my boobs when I was bf.

Also DS2 is nearly 2 and stopped bf a few months back. He still likes to put his hand down my top and grab a handful. I didn't mind at first but am now finding it a bit annoying and stop him from doing it.

I think what you are describing sounds pretty normal.

I guess I will have to swat both of them away.

I am stopping BF when DD is 1, which is June. And then I hope my boobs will be my own again.