found an unexpected benefit to tandem feeding

[StealthPolarBear]

no nipple twiddling!
DS's hand wanders over for a twiddle but his sister's in the way

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DD still only 4 weeks, so he stroks her arm & head but I'm on edge for scratching/soft spot pushing/eye poking!

Great!!! I have asked ds what he will do when our new baby is on the other side, and he said he would just stroke the baby instead.

We'll see.....