Could anyone tell me how they stoped breastfeeding. I know it should be done slowly, but in what order of dropping feeds and how to cope with engorgement? I have had mastitis and always have a lump from a previous absess so need to be careful. Should i express to relieve the pain or will this ensure my milk supply continues? I feel unbearably engorged a few hours after each feed (about 6 a day at mo) and feed off both breasts at a time to relieve both sides. Should this be just one breast at a time? I am so confused.... help please!