is your boobs a no go area now you are breastfeeding.......

[mum2samandalex]

sorry if ive lowered the tone but ive always liked my boobs being played with and dh is def a boob man and loves them even more now they are bigger! Im not ready for s-e-x- yet so weve just statred to fool arond and take thinks slow but im now sure how i feel about dh fondling my breast its hard to switch off forgot what they are usually meant for. Just wondered how everyone else feels.

At first mine were soooo sensitive that I couldn't stand dp touching them. Then once bf was going well and I was catching up on sleep (and generally feeling more inclined to have sex!) they were brought back into action.

Everyone is different, just do what feels comfortable.

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not off limits here once my milk regulated better.
DH quite liked the fact my boobs had another purpose on the go.

just don't try 'fooling around' right after you've been feeding the baby. A bit of distance between the two activities helps you switch off

If you don't want them off limits, and your dh is happy for them not to be off limits, then they shouldn't be. Although your dh should be prepared to be squirted in the eye every so often ...

DH did try 'fondling' the other night, I had to remind him that I had breast pads inside my sleep bra so couldn't feel a thing!

i think its just weird the idea of sharing them with two different people for very purposes. To be honest i thought it would dh off.

He can touch everything except the nipple - I don't know why but dh touching my nipples just feels weird now, somehow. It's strange to say, but it just feels... unnatural. But everything else is fine.

my (.)(.)'s were totally off limits for the whole of the time i was BF my DD. everytime my DH went anywhere near them my immediate reaction was to push him off i didnt mind them being touched but for some reason wouldnt allow anyone but DD touch them they also had a habit of squrting milk at 10 paces too not very conductive of a romantic time
if you feel ok allowing your Dh near your boobs then you do that. it is entirely down to how you feel about it and its ok to let him have a feel and push him off if you dont feel right congrats on the baby aswell
xx ei xx

If you are happy with them having a dual purpose then it's ok! I really miss having mine fondled (& DH misses fondling them!)...but the slightest touch from DH means I let down & they become really uncomfortable & full...so they are off limits until DS wean totally.

I stopped breastfeeding 3 months ago and I'm now just feeling like they've got their mojo back.

I am not sure really, how I would feel, but DH wont go anywhere near them, think he is scared!

I didn't like them being touched all the time I was bfing. It felt wrong - not to mention they were about as sensitive as tarmac

lol...My DH loved em it thought it was funny they could squirt like a water gun!..bluddy cheek!..didn't bother me tbh...but sometimes I would feel a kind of guilty pleasure ...Oh and once I was on top and I was enjoying meself and I looked down and I was squirting me poor DH in the face!!...lmao

totally agree with OP. I could quite go without any sex at the mo (DD is 3 months) but DH is gagging for it. I have had to resort to 'give it a rest will you' and 'for goodness sake i am already having my tits sucked for an hour a day'. He got his just deserts though as i started leaking profusely the other day when he was having a play. I think he has got teh message now, though and funnily enough i am now up for it

My whole body was a no-go area while I was breastfeeding - well, most of the time, theres only 16m between babies and I fed them both for 9m each!

Funnily enough I felt quite sexual during and after pregnancy and my children are 18mths apart both breast fed for 12mths.