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Baby not gained as expected

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Lanzy · 01/02/2023 18:41

health visitor weighed baby today, baby is 5 weeks old and I BF and formula feed, she had been on 90ml and lately I’ve been given 120ml as she was going through 90ml though I have always fed on demand but usually 2-3 hours. Lately baby has been pushing bottle out her mouth then screaming, I peserve because she looks then repeats etc. which is confusing.
she has plenty of wet nappies
and poos are always runny. Today after health visitor seen she said maybe it’s the teat so I have now bought teat 2 size as recommended. Mum had fed whilst out and she was sick after her being more settled lately last weeks. I
also fed her when she was up hours later and again sick everywhere. Baby when first born few weeks would be sick a lot and it settled. I give her kendamil as had previously been on cow and gate. I did mention to GP I feel baby has reflux weeks ago because she grunts lots and sick if on back too soon. I always sit up with her 30 mins and now I’m drained on lack of sleep and having baby that doesn’t like being put down at all. Now the pressure to feed feed when baby is going to throw it up!

the gp previously gave carobel? but with that would that then defeat teat size as it thickens things? Would it then cause her pain of constipation would I be better with a different formula or..I broke down in tears tonight. I’m autistic and mum says i’m doing great but to see that she hasn’t gained as expected I feel lost

should i be doing more than 120ml

baby was 5lb11 when born

She is now at 5 weeks 3.1kg which i think is 6 13lb
said she has gained but not where expected

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PritiPatelsMaker · 01/02/2023 20:26

Sorry @Lanzy I couldn't quite figure out from your post if you are still BFing as well as FFing?

Lanzy · 01/02/2023 20:36

PritiPatelsMaker · 01/02/2023 20:26

Sorry @Lanzy I couldn't quite figure out from your post if you are still BFing as well as FFing?

Hi, yeah doing both still :)

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PritiPatelsMaker · 01/02/2023 20:46

Thanks for replying. Do you think they dairy could be the issue? If it is, then the Kendamil would make the symptoms worse.

Have a read of this on BFing and Dairy.

BridieConvert · 01/02/2023 22:06

It sounds like there could potentially be a cows milk allergy - my wee girl was suspected at around 4 weeks. Ask your HV/GP to prescribe a trial of a dairy free formula - preferably amino acid as it sounds like baby is reacting through your breast milk but they'd try a hydrolysed formula first. You also need to cut all dairy out of your diet. You'd do an exclusion for 6 weeks to see if symptoms improve then do a "challenge" to confirm a diagnosis.

There are great support groups for CMPA - have a search on Facebook Smile

AlexRobin · 02/02/2023 13:32

Not much help but just wanted to say I have a reflux baby and I remember feeling so lost at your stage trying to figure out what was wrong and the best way to feed. I think around 7 weeks she went on reflux milk and slowly improved from there.
Just from my experience mine couldn't have coped with a size 2 teat at that age and she was a similar birth weight to yours, even with the size 1 teat it seemed to be too quick for her

PritiPatelsMaker · 02/02/2023 16:07

How are things today @Lanzy?

Lanzy · 03/02/2023 03:04

PritiPatelsMaker · 02/02/2023 16:07

How are things today @Lanzy?

I had to phone health visitor as the health visitors advice to feed feed and force made her more sick which I thought that’s not right. Then got a GP app. They don’t know what’s wrong, I did point out that baby has spots on throat (two white spots)
and that could we trial anti cows milk formula

tonight sickness has improved but she is averaging 60ml when last week she was taking roughly 90ml and over that :(

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