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Extended bfers - does anyone in RL know you bf?

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NoNickname · 11/07/2007 19:58

Ds is 3.7 and is bfed - once or twice a day, always last thing, sometimes first thing.

I realise tonight that (apart from dh and ds of course) no-one in RL knows I bfeed.

My sister and Mum knew about nine months ago, but something came up the other day and my sister said, "He doesn't still feed does he?" I don't think she meant it nastily (although my hackles always go up when someone says "still"), but she'd got the wrong end of the stick about what I was talking about anyway, so I started my answer with a "no" anyway, and wasn't really directly answering her question. So, I'm sure she thinks I don't bfeed him any more. And I've not mentioned it to my Mum in months, so she almost certainly thinks the same too, as I used to mention it every now and then before.

This got me thinking how sad it was that there really isn't anyone with whom I can share bfing tales - either good and bad. Dh is incredibly supportive, but has heard it all before. It's also a bit sad because I don't feel I can tell anyone. I feel everyone would think me some sort of freak for feeding "this long" (in their opinion of course).

Apart from you lovely lot on MN, I don't have anyone in RL who knows I bf. Is it the same for other extended bfers out there? Or am I just a Billy no mates with regard to this?

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ProjectSeverus · 12/07/2007 14:42

boco you should have squirted her in the eye

BocoBeak · 12/07/2007 14:50

She's now heavily pg, hahahahahahah! She'll be squirting herself in the eye soon.

popsycal · 12/07/2007 19:32

Dh brought up the ;when do you think you will stop?' comment casually this evening after DS2 was onthe phone to Dh's parents. It was close to bed time and he was obviously thinking of only one thing. Every question they asked him, he answered:'Me mammy jubaba now upstairs. Bye bye. No way!!!'
Quite amusing

Pamina · 13/07/2007 13:21

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butterbeer · 13/07/2007 13:36

DS is 2.5. All our immediate relations know (so my parents, my inlaws, my sister, DH's sisters not sure about my brothers as I've not seen them for a while and I doubt they give the matter much thought). A couple of friends of DH's (he tends to mention it more than I do, for some reason). That's about it it's not a Big Secret, but not something that comes up naturally in conversation.

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