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Probably going to get flamed for this...................but

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fannyannie · 25/06/2007 12:49

I'm seriously considering switching DS3 (now 1 month old) completely over to bottles.

We had a 'blip' with the breastfeeding about 1 week ago so gave him a few bottles as he wouldn't latch on (he was getting hysterical over it) since then he's improved again and latches on brilliantly (even on the right side which he's not really been interested even since he was born).

DH and I agreed to mix feed him, bottle just before bed, and another middle of the night - then I'd have him in bed with us when he woke early morning to breastfeed him - which has been working well. He still won't take a bottle properly from me (though we're getting there) but when he does he seems much more settled (whether it's just expressed breastmilk or formula) and is easier to put down for a sleep/nap.

I DO enjoy BF - especially early morning in bed with us, but tbh (and this is what I'll probably get most flamed for) I'm finding it a real drag during the day and early evening and somewhat starting to resent (not sure if that's quite the right word) it.

Also I was hoping to be able to express enough milk to be able to make his Formula feeds up 50/50 or perhaps enough for a complete feed but I'm only getting 2 or 3 oz out at a time (despite still soaking breastpads during the day).

DS1 was breastfed for 14 months, DS2 for 5 days and DS3 fully for 3 weeks, and about 1 1/2 weeks of mix feeding.

Has anyone else deliberately made the decision to stop breastfeeding this early despite having no problems with the breastfeeding???

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fannyannie · 25/06/2007 13:57

katz if you wouldn't mind that would be lovely of you - IF I do switch over to FF it's not going to be imminent as I'll need to get ds3 accepting a bottle off me first LOL. I'd also like to keep bf for at least a bit longer so I can get some expressed in the freezer to "extend" the amount of time he's getting the benefits of the breastmilk (I've still got about 35 bags to store the stuff in - and again they weren't cheap).

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katz · 25/06/2007 15:48

will have a look - do you have an email address so i can email you? my email address is my rl name which ni'm not keen on posting!

fannyannie · 25/06/2007 16:04

yes - it's gwenick . taff @ ntlworld . com (without the spaces obviously ).

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theUrbanDryad · 26/06/2007 08:46

fanny - quick hijack, where in Northants do you live? i'm in northampton!

fannyannie · 26/06/2007 09:08

I'm just along the road from you in Wellingborough .

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rainbow83 · 26/06/2007 12:43

hi fanny, i love breastfeeding, i breastfeed dd2. but i ALSO loved Bottlefeeding, dd1 was bottlefed. its your choice and i respect that and so probably does everyone else. don;t think anyone will flame you for that. good luck whatever you do.

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