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3-5 minute feeds 8x a day!?

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midwifetomummy · 17/04/2018 08:48

Hi all, I'm a first time mum... my little girl is 10 weeks and so far we've had zero issues, she was born and latched on instantly and has gained weight nicely. She has always fed for about 5-20 minutes with an occasional 40-hour long feed. This issue however came about around a week ago after her first needles... now most feeds are about 5 minutes, maximum of 10 minutes... with the occasional 3 minute feed (this is what worries me). She now no longer cluster feeds and usually goes 2-4 hours in the day and I dream feed her every 4 hours at night. Also in the week I introduced a dummy as I was going insane, she was very unsettled and wouldn't even take boob, the only way she would settle was sucking my finger. Im worried now the dummy is affecting her feed even though many assured me our feeding was established.. Once she's stopped feeding even after changing her swapping boob she pushes away from the breast and eventually becomes distressed if I keep attempting to feed again. She then proceeds to suck her hands and finally settles when I give her the dummy.
I've read multiple stories online about women who's babies feed for only a couple of minutes and as I have a large supply and fast let down I'm not too concerned, but more worried that feeding so little with bigger gaps between..? Have the feeds reduced because she's no longer using me as a dummy? Should I be worried?
Thanks ladies! Thanks

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Spam88 · 17/04/2018 08:56

I think it was around 12 weeks when my DD suddenly wouldn't feed for longer than 5 minutes. I thought she was getting distracted, but I guess she just must have become more efficient. 8 feeds a day sounds ok, although at 10 months mine has only recently stopped feeding every 1.5-2 hours 🙄 as long as she's having plenty of wet and dirty nappies then I would assume all is well. I guess she'll be getting weighed soon as well which should put your mind at rest.

123456kent · 17/04/2018 15:05

Mine has always fed for 3-5 mins or so, she gulps like her life depends on it. She’s always gained weight well, and managed 3 hours between feeds. It’s so beneficial when you need to do a quick feed (like in m&s where they don’t supply chairs in baby change so you have to feed standing upAngry)

JiltedJohnsJulie · 17/04/2018 18:12

My DD only ever fed for 5 minutes. When she was a little older she used to squeeze my boob as she was feeding, doing her very own breast compressions Grin

As long as she’s bright and alert at times, she will be fine Smile

Spam88 · 17/04/2018 18:41

jilted it's handy when they take over the breast compressions isn't it. The slapping is less appreciated though...

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