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Bf-ing mum night out, how much do 9wk old babies need in a feed?!?

19 replies

FirstNov2017 · 21/01/2018 18:20

I'm off out for a few hours. Have expressed and stocked up in the freezer. How much milk does a 9 week old drink on average for a feed? I have no idea having exclusively breastfed LO. Want to know what to tell the baby sitter.

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Lj8893 · 21/01/2018 18:22

There isn't really an average. Do you know if your baby will definitely take a bottle?

YouCantBeSadHoldingACupcake · 21/01/2018 18:33

Don't know if it's an average amount, but my 9 week old takes 6oz a feed

FirstNov2017 · 21/01/2018 18:55

I was breast and expressed milk bottle feeding from week 1 to week 3/4 whilst we were getting the hang of bf-ing and LO was ok with that. We have the medela calma teet. Will try him on it tomorrow just to make sure otherwise I'll be staying in Sad

I hoping to feed him just before going out and then he should Only need one more feed until I get home. Have another outing in a week and a half so trying to build up a good stock and not defrost too much but would definitely rather have too much than too little

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seafooodplatter · 21/01/2018 19:04

My FF baby had around 4-5 ounces per feed (roughly every 2-2.5 hours) at a couple of months old.

JohnLapsleyParlabane · 21/01/2018 19:06

We averaged an ounce per hour I was out until she started refusing the bottle

HopelesslyHopeful87 · 21/01/2018 19:07

My 9 wo takes 4-5oz every 3 hours

TeddyIsaHe · 21/01/2018 19:08

If he refuses the calma teat, try the Tommee Tippee bottles, dd much preferred them as they were softer.

I made sure I had around 12oz with some back up in the freezer if needed. There’s a good calculator on Kelly Mom, I’ll hunt it down for you

TeddyIsaHe · 21/01/2018 19:09

kellymom.com/bf/pumpingmoms/pumping/milkcalc/

CheesecakeAddict · 21/01/2018 19:10

My 8 week old takes 5ml every 2.5hours when dad has babysitting duty

FirstNov2017 · 21/01/2018 20:04

Excellent. Thanks for the responses. Will go for 3 bottles of 6oz

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BertieBotts · 21/01/2018 20:10

If you leave the milk frozen in 1-2oz sachets, the babysitter can just defrost a couple at a time and feed that, then defrost 1-2 more as needed. Defrost in a cup of warm water, then open and tip into bottle to feed.

FirstNov2017 · 04/02/2018 09:55

So second time out and left LO with DP. He rejected the bottle. DP said he only took the bottle when he had exhausted himself screaming 😩 Going to try tommee tippee teats in the week. Any other teats anyone can think of?

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NameChange30 · 04/02/2018 10:00

DS is mostly breastfeed and has the Avent natural teats. He went through a bottle refusal phase and we found the softer teats a bit better. It’s trial and error tbh, I suggest you try one or two, and just keep trying. My DH had to persevere.

booellesmum · 04/02/2018 10:01

DD1 wouldn't bottle feed at all so anyone else had to feed her milk with a spoon.
Time consuming but it worked ok.

FirstNov2017 · 04/02/2018 10:11

Tried him on a bottle again this morning and he was having none of it. Worked for about 50ml when I held him facing me with the bottle under my arm Grin. Put him back on the breast after and it's the most efficient he's ever been!

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NameChange30 · 04/02/2018 11:00

I’ve never given him a bottle myself btw. Seems completely pointless given that I have boobs full of milk and he knows it.
DH gives the bottle and I make sure I’m not in the room.

If you just give up and breastfeed him it’s never going to work.

FirstNov2017 · 04/02/2018 11:05

DP tried for about 30 mins this morning. Will get the avent teat and try him later. I'll probably go for a walk in that time to give DP best chance

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YerAuntFanny · 04/02/2018 11:06

We tried quite a few different brands, Medela, Avent and Tommee Tippee are the ones I remember, and the only one my DD ever took more than a few drops from was the angled NUK teat.

She wouldn't drink much from it but would tolerate it little and often if I wasn't there.

Meepmoop · 04/02/2018 11:34

DS is breastfed and he will take the NUK teats but not the others

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