I am on day 5 and my milk is starting to come in. I've borrowed a pump from the hospital but how do i know I've got the right size kit? I had a 28mm thing and its made red rings around my nipples. Have got a 30mm to try but i think I've had the same thing as can see the nipple rubbing against the side of the tube as its being pumped but the 30mm is less uncomfortable. Should i be worried?