It's just occurred to me... the milk has been in a couple of days, but I haven't had any real engorgement this time around. (Second baby)
I feel the let down, there's obviously plenty there for the babe - he's feeding far better than ds1 ever did at this age. Milk came in at the end of the second day this time around and ds2 has fed frequently - is this why I haven't got engorged?
Not that I miss the feeling of swelling, heat and pain, but wondered if it was normal second time around not to get engorged when milk production kicks in.