He's nearly 5, but he stopped bf at 18 months (hilariously, because I was warned by a friend, that if I bf to 2, he would still want milk when I had another kid). He's been trying, a bit, to bf, since DS2 was born, but generally without much success.
It's not like he's 12 or anything.
I guess it's good that your DS1 is so firm in his opinions? I'm not bothered, yet, about weaning DS2, but he's not yet 2. And I can skip a bf here and there, either by having someone else handle him, or by distraction. Oh, and I can read during. If not, I would be bored, too.