That sounds remarkably similar to a thread that was started on here a short while ago. After close questioning from others on the thread it turned out that the member of staff had pointed out the nursing nest to her and his actual words could have been taken in one of two ways. Either he meant to point out a comfortable and private area for her to bf if she wanted it, or he was implying that she should move away from the café to bf. The OP had chosen to take offense when, in fact, it could have been a badly phrased sentence from an embarrassed young person who was trying to be helpful.
I'll have a look for the thread.