We have tried to wait him out and gently reduce feeds but he is still waking 6+ times a night and I am at the end of my tether and my health is suffering. Had a long "chat" with him earlier and said neh is going away but ds will have hugs and a new water bottle and a trip to the toy shop. He seemed unbothered. Gone off with Daddy to get new water bottle. We will also have a stack of little cars as bribes / rewards. Be gentle we have tried every other approach...........