11 week old crying at breast, fussing. Crying some more. I've had enough. Please help

[herjazz]

He's fed rubbish today. Keeps pulling off and fussing. Tired and hungry. But won't feed properly. Temp ok. No thrush. Was smiling earlier but now just fucking miserable. And I am. My neck hurts from walking round with him.

He's been v refluxy but that getting better since I cut out dairy. If I didn't have that fear that he'd be v sick I'd be running off to shop for formula now. I don't know what to do with him. Please help. He's screaming now

Sorry you're having a hard time. Have you eaten anything you don't normally eat? It can put them off if they don't like the taste.

Mine had colic, not just evenings but all through the day, he had terrible stomach ache and I think this sometimes put him off his food. Have you tried biogaia drops? It's the only thing that worked for mine, it's a probiotic, like yakult but suitable from birth and instantly stopped his stomach aches from when we found out about it when he was 12 weeks old.

Sorry, not much advice really, they are so random. I know how you feel though...

Could be a growth spurt - fussing is very common then, and around 3 months is a classic growth spurt time.

Kellymom info here.

Hope it improves.