It's so obvious when white people want to use a genuine issue or point of controversy to just rip the shit out of Black people. We saw it when Will slapped Jamie, we saw it when the celebrity sex offenders were caught and we see it in threads about Caster Semanya.
It isn't about whether you think Caster is a she or a he, or should or shouldn't race against women. It's about how you speak about the person, where they come from and who they are. It's how you speak about their body and their character. The language you use.
Most of all, it's about that itch that Black people and I am sure other non-white people get when you just know.
Mumsnet AI suggested I title this "How can threads address race related controversies without dehumanising Black people?"
No, I think I'll call it, "I see you (and I think others will too)".