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Failed 6th driving test. Can't bring myself to book test 7

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bellaella18 · 11/12/2021 14:58

Just failed my 6th driving test this morning. I'm absolutely gutted. I drove pretty well, completed the parking manœuvre correctly. However, when we got to the motorway, traffic was pretty slow and the examiner failed me for not having the appropriate distance from the car ahead ( he said I was too close, about a car's length instead of 2).

I feel so embarrassed and such a let down that I can't go ahead with booking test 7.

Any help and support on how to bring up my confidence would be greatly appreciated.

OP posts:
Icouldabeenalawyer · 22/12/2021 23:17

I passed on my 7th....15 years ago now. Cried even examiner told me. I had changed driving instructor about a month before and 7th test was in a diff area. I needed the change. You'll get there. And as pp have said, don't tell anyone when you've booked. 💐

Icouldabeenalawyer · 22/12/2021 23:18

When not even...oops

lisaandalan · 22/12/2021 23:59

Don't give up, you have come this far. X

PalmLady · 23/12/2021 00:02

I passed on my 5th try. After my 4th people were shocked that I was still trying. I'm glad I did, you only need to pass once and you have your license. Even if it takes 10 tests, you will have your license for the rest of your life.

bellaella18 · 28/12/2021 14:33

Thank you all for your supportive messages and for sharing your own stories with me. It means so much. I have plucked up the courage and booked a test in a different area. I am also looking for a new instructor too. Flowers

OP posts:
GreenClock · 28/12/2021 18:09

Fantastic!

Orchidflower1 · 28/12/2021 20:31

Whoohooo for you @bellaella18 well done for taking that massive step. We’re all with you.

UserError012345 · 29/12/2021 07:12

I learned for a year OP. Don't give up.

erinaceus · 29/12/2021 07:31

It took me three attempts and a switch from manual to automatic to pass mine.

I found driving an automatic possible and didn’t get on at all with driving a manual car, and given the move towards electric vehicles now, that is one option you could consider trying in case it helps you too.

Either way, congratulations on booking your next test and best of luck Flowers

bellaella18 · 07/01/2022 14:48

I would like to let you all know that I sat my test today in a different test centre and PASSED with 4 minors! I can't believe it! But I am so glad, I went ahead and booked the test. Thank you all so much for your support. Smile Flowers

OP posts:
BlackandGreen · 07/01/2022 17:00

That's brilliant news!
So pleased for you. It will make such a difference being able to drive yourself about. Well done for sticking with it! Grin

erinaceus · 07/01/2022 17:31

Congratulations!

Lowther · 07/01/2022 17:40

Congratulations! Enjoy your new found freedom. So pleased for you ☺️

escapingthecity · 07/01/2022 17:41

Well done! I took even more tests to pass than you and changing test centres (to one with simpler routes and smaller roads) made a big difference too

SavoyCabbage · 07/01/2022 17:49

Whoo Hoo! Congratulations!

Starseeking · 07/01/2022 18:36

Wonderful news, very well done!

DixonD · 07/01/2022 18:47

Well done! It’s the most amazing feeling isn’t it?

Orchidflower1 · 07/01/2022 21:26

Whooohoooo @bellaella18 so pleased for you. You have so much to be proud of!! Well done for persevering.

Where will you go on your first outing?

🎉🥳⭐️🍾🎊🚗🚙🏎🚕🚘

Omicrone · 07/01/2022 21:29

Oh that's brilliant! Bloody well done, and also well done for not giving up too!

PermanentTemporary · 07/01/2022 21:31

Im so pleased you updated! Brilliant work 👏

CurryLover55 · 07/01/2022 21:34

My sister in law passed 7th time. I took 5 tests - it took me 7 years to pass but was so worth it! Stick at it OP & good luck ☘️☘️☘️

Qwertykeys · 07/01/2022 21:38

Please re book my son takes his fourth test next week. He was totally devastated when he failed his third. But you must must re book , you can do it .

Qwertykeys · 07/01/2022 21:40

Oops just read your updated. Well done

N0va · 07/01/2022 21:47

Couldn't read and not reply! You're doing well! I took over 10 tests (I stopped counting when I got to 10!) in the end, my driving instructor said she would pay for my tests and I pay her back for the one that I pass (when it happens) and she did just that, the first one she paid for, I passed! The feeling of achievement was much greater than if I had passed first time (I assume! But I felt wonderful at the time!) it'll be worth it, I promise!

Maelstrom23 · 07/01/2022 22:07

Well done OP 🎉Perseverance paid off, enjoy your independence Thanks