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Nov 2011: aches, pains and waddling, soon to be cuddles and swaddling

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PamSco · 06/11/2011 18:11

Thanks Moosey for the title :)

I thought I'd go for it as there are only 4 or 5 posts left to go on the old thread.

Two other threads to be aware of:

Stats - you can update announcements here
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/antenatal_clubs/1157973-Nov11-Stats-only

Post Natal - for those of you already cuddling :)
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/postnatal_clubs/1326836-November-2011-early-birds-just-in-time-and-late-to-the-party-all-welcome

Hope this thread sees all our nests full.

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voodoomunkee · 10/11/2011 15:46

Welcome mrsgt!
Nothing new here, usual braxton hicks and wriggles but looks like this little miss is going to be good and not share her big sisters bday!
After all my exertion cleaning all of the downstairs and the bathroom then actually blow drying my mad curly hair straight am shattered. My hair is now just about to the bottom of my ribs. I have no idea when this happened but I clearly have hair that likes pregnancy!

Staceroo · 10/11/2011 16:31

Well no more signs of anything since the little bit of blood last night. Guess I'm off to yoga tonight afterall!

Would really be convinient for baby to come tonight or tomorrow, so my mum can come visit saturday!

Sorry - just coming on here to whinge now!! Sympathy goes out to everyone else as uncomfortable as me!

hadak · 10/11/2011 16:48

lk and moosey congratulations. Squeaky hope the lavender baths are helping. I used lavender after having my son and although I only had a small tear I thought it helped and have bought in prep for this one too.
Truff I am slightly in awe of how busy you are so close to having new baby I wouldn't be able to even think about half you have to do. Hope all goes well.
Hello Mrsgt and welcome. I too lurked until a couple of weeks ago but I have to say I find ths thread really helpful and it is lovely to hear of the new birth stories.
mrs A I think I have mentioned that I too have swollen quite a lot over the last couple of weeks. I did see midwife last Thurs and she wasn't concerned as BP and urine fine so I am guessing it is just another one of those things.
Well no signs for me although only 39+1 so shouldn't complain but of course I will! My back is just killing me and I have been sleeping very little up making cuppas at hourly intervals through the night but at least that is preparing me for the night feeds to come. I still have a few bits to do around the house (well loads really) but just don't have the energy. Also full of a cold and coughing and sneezing a lot is not a good idea when this pregnant - TENNA ladies here I come!!
Re inducton I think the policy here is 40+14 but will prob have a sweep after due date. I was induced forst time round after waters broke but straight onto evil drip. I would like to avoid that if possible but I think if I get to 42 weeks I will be happy to take any course of action to evict this baby.
Oooh forgot to say Cookie good luck hope it's all going to plan

knockedupagain · 10/11/2011 18:05

Congratulations to...

TJuice Bump Katie Squeaky LK and Moosey

Six babies in such a short space of time! We're really motoring now! I hope everyone is recovering well and enjoying their babies! I'm due tomorrow, but don't feel hopeful of anything happening. Having a sweep at 10.00am, so maybe...

Am rather regretting the decision to have my fanjo tightened when I had a vaginal prolapse fixed just before pregnancy. Seemed a good idea at the time. A free designer vagina. I was so keen to have a baby and have the IVF procedure work for me, I thought invoking Sod's Law would help. But now I have to push this baby out of a 'virginal' vag, I am not quite so chipper about it. Can't see much entertainment value in a whole hand doing a sweep on me tomorrow either. Even the dildo probe they used to check the placental position was quite sore. What was I thinking, getting it tightened? Hey ho.

And a big welcome to Mrsgt !

juststarting · 10/11/2011 19:22

Evening all. Welcome Mrsgt.
So, is it wrong of me to be fascinated by the tightened vagina knockedup? Do you notice it at all? You know, apart from not prolapsing!
Sorry to all those made so uncomfortable all the time. I'm not doing brill myself, but I think some of you are having it worse! So far I guess. I walked all of about a mile today and stopped at a cafe half way and am now NOT a comfy lady in the groin region. And have decided I will not be going to a cafe again until DS is like ten or something. He was in a perfectly good mood, no tantruming or anything, he was just entirely unmanageably marauding. It was impossible.
Sorry about the excrutiating undercarriage. When I had the bartholins abscess after DS I also used savlon - I alternated savlon in the bath and lavander. Sure there's nothing like that going on? Because apart from the breast abscess, the bartholons abscess may also have been the worse pain I have had - I recall them giving me morphine after the surgery and me being like "are you kidding? THIS pain is BLISS compared to how it was before the surgery!" Well, ok, that came after my semi conscious rant of "no, no, it might make me sick, I said I didnt want morphine. And I'm BREAST FEEDING!" Anyway, have you had someone look at it? If you havent, I really think you should.

Truffkin · 10/11/2011 19:28

KnockedUp that really made me LOL Grin am secretly hoping I might get a designer vag if I need stitches after labour, my sister was offered an extra couple of 'vanity stitches' (her MW's words!)

TerrysNo2 · 10/11/2011 20:29

Congrats all round to the new babies

Welcome mrsgt

I hope there are some happy labour vibes tonight, an 11/11/11 baby would be fab!

Ok, so my baby girl might have kept me up ALL NIGHT last night but I totally forgive her when I smell her and hold her and stroke her oh so soft skin. Check this out Grin Grin

My breasts are in pain as they are so full of milk, DS elbowed one today by accident and I almost cried, off to have a bath now to see if I can release some of the milk.

hadak · 10/11/2011 20:45

Awwwwwwwwwww Beautiful photo Terrys

Poppet45 · 10/11/2011 20:48

Oh my word: Terry's you have the most adorable children. Just gorgeous!! I hope you are one proud mummy! My DS is a big blondie, and I'm thinking Willow is going to be darker like me too.

knockedupagain · 10/11/2011 20:48

Just I noticed it a bit. It felt like I was clenching, but without having to actually bother to do so, so sex was more fun and more relaxing. My XH really noticed it big time, so it made much more difference to him. Didn't last forever, and by the time I'd spent two years with the plasterer (who was rather large in the trouser dept, tho not in TwoJacks DH's league), it had gone again. My prolapse had affected my anterior and posterior vaginal walls, and apparently only one can be fixed at a time, so got retightened when I had the other wall done. Haven't tested it out much, sadly, but think that the second surgeon didn't do as good a job. Didn't get any "Wow!" comments second time round. There's more to it than just stitching at the outside Truffkin. That just splits back open as soon as a sausage goes in!

knockedupagain · 10/11/2011 20:51

What a lovely picture Terry's!

juststarting · 10/11/2011 21:22

Terrys, well cute picture!
Knocked up, thanks for the info - I think I always assumed it would eventually just re loosen or something. No tthat its been on my agenda or anything - though I did notice my smear AFTER giving birth to DS was, well, a tad easier that before giving birth. DP never mentioned any difference, but frankly it was so long after DS was born that we actually next had sex he'd oribably forgotten by then anyway!
Eugh, got feedback on my thesis proposal stuff, which means I can now get back to work on it - after a whole week of not being able to ge ton with any uni work, I dont want to pick it up again now!

voodoomunkee · 10/11/2011 22:21

Terrys, what beautiful children you have! Congrats!
Ok I wore heels, little ones, was like I had to walk like John Wayne to balance.... Classy. However dd had a lovely meal at our favourite little Italians where she was on a chair being sang to by the whole place and I got to have a very relaxing time which was just missing my big bro and his family.

Designer vagina's eh? I miss everything!

Right well am super uncomfortable with the usual braxton hicks and backache malarky so shall head off to bed to wait for them to stop as soon as I think we are getting somewhere!

Hope some 11/11/11 babies appear!

sasaunde · 10/11/2011 23:23

Just been catching up on birth stories, congratulations everybody, bump I am just blown away by the fact that you even got the dog to the vet! You are my idol!! And terrys what a lovely picture.
Super strong braxton hicks tonight, know how you feel voodoo, just as I get excited everything stops. Fantasising about Katie's silent dilation..

smilingcl · 11/11/2011 06:32

Welcome Mrs GT, thank you for your story knocked up, made me smile even tho I know it shouldn't, sorry?!

I think things are happening here, had a curry and dtd last night and my waters broke at 4am. I'm 40+8 today. Tried to stay in bed but felt hungry and like I need to sit on the loo all the time (starting to regret the curry), now I've found a warm spot shoved against the radiator and I'm enjoying that while I start researching what labour involves again! I'm having what feels like worst ever period pains in my lower abdoment around every 5 mins lasting for 30 seconds a time, I thought they were sposed to be further apart? Guess every labours different. Might be a full moon 11/11/11 baby, fingers crossed!

voodoomunkee · 11/11/2011 06:59

Smiling, hope your managing through the discomfort. Have you rang mw/labour ward? Sorry don't know if you have a hb or hospital birth planned! Don't they say when ctx are coming every 5 mins or so and lasting a minute to go in? Am pretty sure that there will be someone along in a minute who knows better than me! Try a warm bath and some paracetamol or a tens if you have one. Sorry it's been exactly 11 years since I've been in labour! Plus think if your waters go you need to let the hcps know, sure it's been mentioned just upthread!
Very exciting though!

hadak · 11/11/2011 07:05

Smiling Good luck. Sounds like baby is definitely on the way!! How cool would 11/11/11 be for birthday.
Keep us all posted when you are able to and sending you lots of non painful nice straight forward labour vibes.

juststarting · 11/11/2011 08:21

Good luck smiling, sounds like things are underway to me!
Think ds is resuccumbing to a cold without having shrugged off the last one here, poor babe. No sign of managing an 111111 baby here though.

Staceroo · 11/11/2011 10:05

morning all!

bored. waiting. uncomfortable. jealous of smilings labour starting (hope its going well!).

happy friday everyone!! :-) x

KellyKettle · 11/11/2011 10:29

Bookmarking after catching up with all the lovely birth announcements!

DD2 is almost 4 weeks old. Things feel like they're settling down although I think we might be moving house in a couple of weeks...

Will keep lurking for new announcements.Smile

PamSco · 11/11/2011 11:14

Oooh smiling best of luck.

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cep · 11/11/2011 12:38

Hello Ladies, sorry to take so long coming back, i have now put piccies on the fb page. Alexander George born yesterday morning at 01:35 weighing 7lb 2oz (exactly the same as ds no1) labour ended up being pretty quick or last bit was. Contractions every 10 mins from about 4pm picked up to every 5 about 9, Called mlu and went in about 10, seemed to start coming really quickly shortly after i got there, checked me and i was 4 cms. Was in the pool which was great, (i bled a lot which is normal for me) so they though waters had gone, checked me again about 12 - 12.30 at this point, they hadn't but i was 5 cms, they think the waters were holding things up so decided to wait and see in anothr hr. then about 30 mins later another load of blood when the mw thought there was meconium so told me to get out, there wasn't as the waters still hadn't gone so out came the crochet needle, (i was 6-7 cms at this point) 35 mins later his head appeared. I was able to survive on just g&a which i was pleased about. I was on all fours at the end so only got away with grazes even though he had a hand up, so only a few stitches.

Alexander swallowed some of the gunk as he came out so quickly in the end, so he wasn't sucking at the breast at all, just wasn't interested, they were getting a bit worried about sending me home as the mlu closes at 8 unless a woman is labouring, so they were close to sending me to the main hosp to make sure he has something, but i suggested giving a little formula so they were happy after that. he's started sucking now (a little) but not long enough to actually get anything, but now he's over 24 hrs apparently i can express so i'll be expressing rather than giving him cow and gate until he sucking and feeding off me properly. Feeling sore, and tired but otherwise very happy.

good luck for smiling and everyone else who's feeling twinges.

voodoomunkee · 11/11/2011 13:20

Congrats Cep and well done! Welcome Alexander! Aww I have an Alex so always get a shiver. Glad to hear you are feeling ok and getting on ok With the feeding well!
Lovely news x

neverinamillionyears · 11/11/2011 14:05

Congratulations to Lk and ceo. Who is next?

MooseyMoo · 11/11/2011 14:24

Cep congratulations! Lovely name Grin.

Currently sat with frozen bag of veg on boob as engorgement really painful.