An innocent conversation when asked "are you going to your nieces baby shower" "I said "no" "I don't believe in them" the next thing I get that day or the day after off my niece to confirm what I said and I repeated what I said I then got a tirade of anger "your wishing my baby dead and as far as I'm concerned your dead to me" that was 11 years ago. It still grates me, there was no meet up to discuss, I tried ringing my brother then rang her sister who told me to stop involving her dad then I got a call from her mum to stop ringing and to stay away. All from an innocent comment. I tried speaking with my brother recently and wants me to apologise, if he knew me well enough there was no malice in what I said and they chose to make me guilty from the off. The amount of people I've spoken to especially mums, they are in shock and disbelief that it's been taken this way. I went to school with their mum who I realise isn't a nice person at all.