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My friend has died leaving a nearly 1 yr old and dh

11 replies

nowwearefour · 11/06/2010 15:11

It was totally unexpected. I am in shock.

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stripeyknickersspottysocks · 11/06/2010 15:12

How awful, I'm so sorry.

StealthPolarBear · 11/06/2010 15:13

I'm so sorry Has it just happened today?

nowwearefour · 11/06/2010 15:18

Thank you. It happened on Tuesday. I was told late last night but had to be in a and e this morning and am processing it a bit now am home alone whilst my mum gets dds from school.

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TheCrackFox · 11/06/2010 15:33

I am so sorry for your loss.

aleene · 12/06/2010 00:53

I'm so sorry. What a shock for you. Do you want to talk about it? You will feel very mixed up, that is okay. Take time to come to terms with this news.

MargaretAtwood3660 · 12/06/2010 06:30

I'm really sorry. We are here if you want us x

onlyjoking9329 · 12/06/2010 15:03

so sorry for your loss.

MercyMe · 12/06/2010 16:34

Sorry for your loss x

Hassled · 12/06/2010 16:37

I'm so sorry. Will the DH have much support? Has he got family around?

ilovesprouts · 12/06/2010 16:38

sorry for you loss xx

nowwearefour · 15/06/2010 21:24

thank you for all your messages. the funeral is on saturday morning. i dont know the dh really and am struggling to work out how i will stay in touch with her son when i dont know him. i dont want to intrude but i do want to know him growing up as his mum wont be able to. :< i am meeting a mutual friend tomorrow and we can talk about her. i am looking forward to that. it is just so very tragic. i dont know what to how feel or how to feel. my own life seems so crazy and i feel so guilty for enjoying time with my own dd;s when she will never see her ds again. her dh will move back to scotland (I am imagining) where both their families are from. they had planned to move there in time for their ds to start school so i cant imagine he will stay where they live now for much longer.

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