A question for experienced readers of this group.

[retiredlady]

I have been looking back though some of the earlier postings on Mumsnet. There are so many sad stories that it has really shaken my faith in the idea of a loving and all-powerful God. Far worse than this for me are the sad stories where there is brief burst of activity and then total silence for ever.

How do you cope with not knowing what happened and how the poor tortured souls coped one month, three months or six months after their crisis?

I wonder if it might have been better to have had the one post (ie the one in relationships) rather than repeating yourself in this forum?

It could come over as a bit insensitive to copy and paste the same thread in different parts of the site. Not meaning to offend, but perhaps something worth thinking about.

And I tend not to think of myself as a poor tortured soul.

We work through it and re-build our lives supported by other threads.

Also not poor or tortured just grief stricken and hoping it will get better.