i dont know what to do ?

[drlove8]

today i found out my grandad passed away last monday, and i have been told he wanted a very quiet no fuss funeral, so i wont be able to go to funeral...i want to pay my respects but dont know how to, i dont even know if i should send a card or even who too. please somebody tell me what to do.

should have added its on wedensday, but have not been told any details, so i dont know where or when....

Can you get a plant for your garden have a quiet moment for reflection and celebration of his life for the actual day of funeral, and then hopefully you will find out more details and be able to visit buriel sight at a later date.

Good luck, and sorry for your loss being made harder for you.

thats a nice idea, but i think i'll get a cactus instead... my grandad had a thing about spikey plants , phoned one of my cousins and she explained whats going on...none of the grandchildren are going,and its going to be a cremation. Ive sent my gran a card with a wee note in saying im here if she needs me, think thats all i can do really.... Thanks for replying Zipa !