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Can I just show my beautiful boy off please

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23yearsagotoday · 01/11/2021 10:12

I want to show him off, if that's ok.

Its been a long time since anyone but me has acknowledged him. Sorry the photos aren't too great, there were no camera phones in the 90s so I had to take a picture of a photo.

He would be 23 now, and as handsome as his little brother no doubt.

He was so beautiful, he was a skinny wee tall boy, all eyes and feet 😂 he was tiny but his eyes were huge and he had ginormous feet.

Everyone always said he has wise eyes, and an old soul. I really felt he was an old soul too.

He fought so hard through his illness, but he was taken from me anyway.

He was cremated in his green top and green socks, that was my favourite outfit on him.

He is still so loved and missed every day. I adored him, my first born, my precious baby boy, he changed my life, he made me a mum, he taught me what love is, and now that love has no place to go so it has turned to grief.

Forever my baby ❤

Can I just show my beautiful boy off please
Can I just show my beautiful boy off please
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23yearsagotoday · 01/11/2021 11:42

He wasn't even safe when he was asleep. Every second was a photo op. He looks so peaceful in this one (and also well dressed).

Thank you all for taking the time to acknowledge him. It means the world to me.

Can I just show my beautiful boy off please
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DidoDino · 01/11/2021 11:42

Beautiful boy ❤️

Worldwide2 · 01/11/2021 11:43

What a lovely gorgeous little boy 😍 show him off all you like you will always be his mummy.
So sorry for your loss 💐

secretbookcase · 01/11/2021 11:44

He's absolutely beautiful @23yearsagotoday. I have a deep soft spot for skinny babies as both my two were. I love those delicate pixie features and huge eyes. He's such a gorgeous boy.

Alpacahunter · 01/11/2021 11:44

Aw, thinking of you and your beautiful little boy Scott. So sorry for your loss Flowers

AwaAnBileYerHeid · 01/11/2021 11:46

He is absolutely gorgeous, those beautiful eyes. You'll never be 'over' him, I think sometimes people just don't know how to react. He is forever your little boy and I truly believe you'll meet again. If you don't believe in that, that's fine, you know he still lives on in your heart.

itsabouttimetoo · 01/11/2021 11:46

This brought tears to my eyes. What a lovely little boy. Thinking of you and Dotty xx

23yearsagotoday · 01/11/2021 11:48

To answer pp, my sons are Dotty and Shorty, and my pets names through the years have been Alan, Kevin, Roger and Sally 😂 pet names for my children and people names for my pets.

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TableFlowerss · 01/11/2021 11:49

He’s sooo cute 😍

mumsiedarlingrevolta · 01/11/2021 11:49

Have loved seeing his photos-

what a darling Dot!!

Glad to help you look back on your boy-you sound like such a lovely Mum. Flowers

LowlandLucky · 01/11/2021 11:49

What a cutie x

StoppinBy · 01/11/2021 11:51

Your little boy sure is gorgeous.

I can see why that outfit was one of your favourite's seeing as he looks so adorable in it.

KeeG8181 · 01/11/2021 11:51

What a beautiful boy! He will be so proud of his strong and loving mum 💗🥰

Geriatric1234 · 01/11/2021 11:51

The MOST beautiful boy! Flowers

Bluee1994 · 01/11/2021 11:53

Awww Dotty was such a cute pie!!! Thank you for sharing this with us Flowers

Doubledoorsontogarden · 01/11/2021 11:53

Beautiful boy 💙

Fillybuster · 01/11/2021 11:54

@23yearsagotoday your pics are beautiful- keep sharing the photos and don't apologise: you deserve to be heard. So sorry for your loss Thanks

Dragongirl10 · 01/11/2021 11:55

such a gorgeous little boy, and he looks such a happy soul...l am so very sorry you lost him but grateful you have shared his photos with us.

msssm · 01/11/2021 11:55

What a gorgeous wee dot Dotty is. Cute wee face and gorgeous eyes. Happy Birthday to Dotty, and wishing a day of love remembrance and peace for mum and the family 💐💚

MyAnacondaMight · 01/11/2021 11:56

Happy Birthday to your first born baby, Mama. Flowers

saltontoast · 01/11/2021 11:56

He is absolutely beautiful

HermioneWeasley · 01/11/2021 11:56

What a beautiful boy, and you’re right, he had lovely eyes. Happy birthday remembering your precious first born. Xx

Neoerna · 01/11/2021 11:57

He's so cute.

Prayers for you.

ladycarlotta · 01/11/2021 11:58

@23yearsagotoday

He wasn't even safe when he was asleep. Every second was a photo op. He looks so peaceful in this one (and also well dressed).

Thank you all for taking the time to acknowledge him. It means the world to me.

He is the most precious little fellow. Thank you for sharing lovely Scott with us, OP, I'm really glad that I got to start this week knowing about him and about all the love you have for him.
IHateCoronavirus · 01/11/2021 11:58

Ah he is gorgeous, he looked like he was having such happy dreams in that last one. When our baby DD died my DH’s friend explained that in his culture babies who die stay babies eternally so that when their parents die too they get to spend eternity enjoying their most perfect and innocent period. I’m not sure if that will be any comfort to you but I was happy to accept that. Eternity with our beloved babies. Smile