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My friend died I knew him only online

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Enko · 25/09/2021 09:37

I've never met him in real but he and another friend and I played a game together and we spoke daily. He died Wednesday I was told yesterday.

The weird thing is noone seems to get im upset as "he was just online" but we texted and WhatsApp Ed daily and I know about ao much stuff in hai life. His wife was adamant I and our other friend needed to know ASAP she knew how close the 3 of us were and would often what's us play together.

I'm so sad and yet people say bit you didn't really know him. But I feel I did. Thankfully his wife and brother did too and ensured we knew. He had a life limiting disease but we were not expecting him to go for a few years he and his wife only married in December...

OP posts:
FlowerTink · 15/10/2021 07:46

I'm sorry OP. I have some wonderful friends I've either never met in person or just met the once, but we've been friends for years. I completely understand, thinking of you and so pleased his wife knew how much you and your other friend meant to him.

ChorizoJacketPotato · 15/10/2021 08:08

Many years ago I was a member of a forum and one of the women died. My husband walked in to me sobbing in the sofa. He couldn’t understand - he still doesn’t.

I am very sorry for your loss OP. It was a real friendship, you did know them and it is a real loss.

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