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Bereavement support after losing beloved husband to suicide

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LukesLaw · 31/07/2021 20:03

Yesterday I was overwhelmed by the support I recieved on mumsnet, I cannot thank everyone enough.

My husband took his own life 3 months ago after developing a gambling disorder after he was furloughed just before christmas. He passed away from gambling related suicide on 22nd April. We have two amazing children. I am so distraught and now face life as a single parent. It is already tough. I had no idea my husband was gambling and only found out once I received his phone back from the coroners 3 weeks after his death. I was completely in the dark and had no idea why he left this earth, which was complete torture. Now I know, I want to make sure it doesn't happen again.

The one thing that is keeping me going and helping me stay focused is a petition I have started called Luke'sLaw which is asking the government to 'Ban Free Bets'. They are not free. The reason why I am doing this is because my husband started his gambling hole with a free bet and won some money. He then used the money on another bet and won again until he started losing. In a short space of time, he was getting out loans and funding his addiction with money he was not able to pay back. He must have felt helpless and completely consumed for him to then end his life.

I cannot post the direct link to the petition but I can post the link to mumsnet thread it is on. Can you please soend one minute signing and sharing for me please? I really need your help.
Here is the mumsnet noticeboard.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/petitions_noticeboard

OP posts:
Squiff70 · 31/07/2021 21:18

So very sorry for your loss. I agree with everything you have said and will gladly sign your petition.

JaffaRaf · 31/07/2021 21:26

Really sorry for your loss OP. I’ve signed the petition Flowers

whatarethechances2021 · 31/07/2021 21:30

I'm so sorry for your loss OP I've found your original post and have signed xx

LukesLaw · 31/07/2021 22:42

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orchidsonabudget · 31/07/2021 22:47

I am so sorry for your loss. I will sign

LukesLaw · 01/08/2021 09:24

Thank you for those who have taken the time to find and sign. I know it is a bit of a pain. Wish i could post the direct link but my post will be removed.

OP posts:
LukesLaw · 01/08/2021 09:50

Thank you all, you are all amazing 💙

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66babe · 01/08/2021 12:13

So sorry for your loss
Signed and bumped 💐

Nowthereistwo · 01/08/2021 12:25

I'm so sorry you are.going through this.

I hate gambling and how 'normalised' it has become.

Have signed the petition- good luck getting the signatures

Justanothernametoday · 01/08/2021 12:33

Signed and shared.

So sorry for your loss Thanks

LukesLaw · 01/08/2021 12:38

Thank you for your support 💙

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LukesLaw · 01/08/2021 13:40

Thank you 💙💙💙

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LukesLaw · 01/08/2021 20:14

Bumping

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LukesLaw · 01/08/2021 21:31

Bump

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LukesLaw · 02/08/2021 08:06

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LukesLaw · 02/08/2021 08:07

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autumnboys · 02/08/2021 08:11

I’m so sorry for your loss. I have signed.

beelover · 03/08/2021 15:59

Thinking of you and your family. I have signed your petition.

Oddbutnotodd · 05/08/2021 16:40

Sorry for your loss. Found your other thread and signed the petition.

Chocolatebuttercream · 07/08/2021 20:08

Signed. So sorry OP

Purpleknickers · 07/08/2021 20:13

Signed

Bunny2021 · 07/08/2021 20:15

So sorry for your loss. I’ve signed the petition.

Openheart01 · 07/08/2021 23:16

So very sorry for your loss. You are doing so well in working to reduce this risk for others. You are a wonderful person. Big hugs ❤

InsanityRocks · 10/08/2021 15:34

Signed. So very sorry for your loss.

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