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I can't stop thinking about it...

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lissiethevampireslayer · 29/10/2007 08:55

my sisters friend had her twins 2 days ago and a few hours later died of a heart attack. she was only 22. i'm not religious, but please join me in a prayer for her husband and new babies

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Nip · 29/10/2007 08:57

x x sorry to hear that, how awfully said x x

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Budabeastie · 29/10/2007 08:58

Oh God - how awful.

Very very sad.

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lissiethevampireslayer · 29/10/2007 09:23

i know, i cant stop thinking about it, her poor family...

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scorpio1 · 29/10/2007 09:24

how terrible.

munchie · 29/10/2007 09:36

How terribly sad for all the family

elescarybells · 29/10/2007 09:37

so sorry lissie

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lissiethevampireslayer · 29/10/2007 10:08

sis is in pieces.

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NAB3 · 29/10/2007 10:16

Bloody hell! I am so sorry to hear this. Is there anything we on here can do?

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lissiethevampireslayer · 29/10/2007 10:19

i dont think so but thank you. i will ask sis tho.

i just keep thinkin, that poor man. those poor babies! theres no justice in the world. she got married at 20 because she was deeply religious and wanted a baby and was so excited...

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Cheekster · 29/10/2007 17:23

My heart goes out to your sis and her bf family. I cannot imagine how they feel. I will pray for them

FioFio · 29/10/2007 17:25

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Notquitegrownup · 29/10/2007 17:26

Oh Lissie what an terribly terribly sad thing to happen. I can't imagine how that family feel and I know that there are no answers as to why this has happened to them. I will certainly pray for them all. Do let us know if there is anything we can do.

CaptainDippy · 29/10/2007 18:45

Just awful. Truly awful. My prayers are very much with your sister's friend's husband and those precious little babes - and for your sis as she struggles to deal with this. xx

CaptainCaveman · 29/10/2007 20:42

Praying for the babies and their dad, and everyone who knew your sis' bf. How terribly sad

DutchOma · 29/10/2007 21:46

Adding my prayers, I know what you mean when you say you can't stop thinking about it.
This leaves so many gaping questions. Hopefully their faith will be a comfort to them.

spookthief · 29/10/2007 21:49

How tragic . Those poor babies without their mum. I am so sorry for everyone affected by this.

tcmummy · 29/10/2007 22:04

How terrible and tragic Praying for the twins and their daddy

anniemac · 29/10/2007 22:49

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spookykitty · 29/10/2007 22:52

lissie - that is so sad and tragic, those poor babies and her husband

podglet · 30/10/2007 08:23

That is awful. Your poor sister and her friend's family. Poor poor babies and their daddy. what a tragedy.

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lissiethevampireslayer · 30/10/2007 09:20

thank you all for your prayers

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leesmum · 30/10/2007 11:02

Kisses,hugs and lots of prayers for the twins and their daddy xxx

ZipadiSuzy · 30/10/2007 13:00

prayers for all concerned, especially the dh and the twins! so so sad

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lissiethevampireslayer · 30/10/2007 13:15

i didnt know her but do you think it would be inappropriate to send some flowers?

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mylittleeloise · 30/10/2007 13:39

my prayers are with the family and friends

i think that it would be ok for you to send flowers,not at all inappropriate. i know that sometimes families ask for donation to a specific charity rather than flowers. maybe you should see which they would prefer.

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