Has anyone ever seen a Spirital Healer/Psychic Medium

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And if so, is a 20min reading a good duration, or should I go for 30!

I had one last week and had an hour, it could have gone on longer so definitely go for longer!

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@glitterb can I ask what happens during one of these? My mum died 3 weeks ago and I have an overwhelming urge to see a medium, but I'm not sure if it's the right thing to do.

And sorry to hijack, I have no one else to ask

My mum died 3 weeks ago and I have an overwhelming urge to see a medium, but I'm not sure if it's the right thing to do.

I’m so sorry for your loss 💜
I think you are supposed to wait for at least a few months after someone passes before you see a medium, there’s more chance of them coming through once they have settled on the other side (there’s a bit of a transition period).
Good luck.

Definitely go for 30 minutes!

@greeneyedlulu no problem. Mine was strange as just as I opened the door to him he told me that I looked just like my Mum and she had told him that as he walked up the drive. Instantly he said my parents were both around me, he asked for a piece of jewellery to hold and then began to tell me things. It doesn’t work for everyone though

Thank you. I didnt realise there was a transition period, I know nothing of this sort of stuff but I guess I want to know mum is ok on the other side. She was ill for a long time and could barely talk towards the end. I guess that's what's making me thinking of contacting mum. Oh this is confusing

Well my personal belief is that we all have souls, and souls are eternal.
You could spend some time exploring your beliefs and see what feels right for you?
I believe your mum is peaceful and happy and will be waiting for you when you pass.

Once went as the driver only. Reader had a space left so I went in - 30 mins. Came out in tears.
She told me about my dgm to a tee.
Def 30 mins.

It’s been 2 and a half months since my Dad died, I wonder if that’s long enough before seeing one.

Thanks twilight. I'm confused and upset at the moment so probably waiting is best before I end up being conned. I'll do my research and wait. Thanks again x

It’s been 2 and a half months since my Dad died, I wonder if that’s long enough before seeing one.

Make sure you choose one that has been well recommended.

Also sorry for your loss xx

Thanks twilight. I'm confused and upset at the moment so probably waiting is best before I end up being conned. I'll do my research and wait. Thanks again x

No problem I hope you find comfort and some answers either way x

I am so torn about this. Every fibre of my being tells me it's hokum . I am a criminal investigator who deals with evidence and FACT !! - but I saw a a tarot reader/medium after my first marriage ended. On the advice of someone I respect and was shocked that he would suggest this as he is a colleague in the same business .

My marriage had ended Amicably) but I was scared to start again with DH... I had 3 dc to consider and wanted reassurance/ guidance from my dad who had been dead for 20 years!!

The medium was amazing. I had 4 hour sessions with her . She told me stuff that I knew but know idea how she did.. she was amazingly intuitive but I think that is the real calling of a good medium. She was basically a brilliant therapist and helped me work through my issues /fears/hopes.

I married DH 10 years ago . It was without doubt the best decision I've made for me and dc.. get a good medium .. you have found a first class therapist. ! I would say 30 mins minimum. If they are good, then book an hour next time . Good luck.

Sorry for all your losses.

Just wondering where can you find a good medium and not a con artist. I’ve always wanted to go to one but worried I’ll end up being scammed ...