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My lovely dad

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thefishthatcouldwish · 27/03/2020 18:03

My lovely dad passed away a week ago after a dad being in hospital for 3 weeks recovering from a brain aneurysms.

Although on the surface I'm ok my heart hurts.

Coupled with Covid 19 where I work looking after key worker children and the fact that the ivf we were due to have next month was cancelled I get why but things are spiralling in my head.

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thefishthatcouldwish · 04/04/2020 06:41

@missingmydad don't feel bad grief is crippling at times children are much more robust than you think.

It's my birthday today and feel so pointless.

Yesterday should have had ivf appointment with concent signing and start date a week later.

Dads funeral is next week.

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Darbs76 · 04/04/2020 19:47

I’m so sorry. What a difficult time this is without losing a loved one at this time. My thoughts are with you

thefishthatcouldwish · 05/04/2020 20:27

Dads funeral tomorrow hope I have the strength to cope.

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missingmydad · 05/04/2020 20:37

I'll be thinking of you. Don't feel like you have to be strong, nobody will be expecting it of you Flowers

CMOTDibbler · 06/04/2020 09:43

Thinking of you Thefishthatcouldwish xxx

thefishthatcouldwish · 07/04/2020 11:38

I feel calm today for the first time in days. Yes i miss dad like mad but I am calm and more relaxed today.

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Glitterb · 07/04/2020 11:58

@thefishthatcouldwish
Sorry to read about your Dad, I happened to come across your post. My Mum died on Sunday after suffering a brain aneurysm 8 weeks ago. I’m so sorry you have had to go through the same thing💐 the world feels very different without her in it

thefishthatcouldwish · 07/04/2020 12:29

@Glitterb

So sorry for your loss.

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WelshMoth · 09/04/2020 19:09

OP and Glitter, I'm so sorry for your loss. Such sorrow. Sending love and light Thanks

WelshMoth · 09/04/2020 19:10

Sorry, have just RTFT.
I'm sending love and thoughts to everyone on this thread dealing with their losses right now. Thanks

BlueBelleKnoll · 16/04/2020 10:47

I am so sorry for your loss. Flowers It must be so hard having to deal with multiple things at the same time. Take care.

lairyhegs · 30/04/2020 16:57

My lovely dad passed on Sunday and I feel like I'm trapped in a neverending groundhog day. I made it till 4pm today, sorting funeral and all associated things but I am broken again now. My best wishes to you all

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