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Goingfor3 has sad news

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goingfor3 · 26/07/2007 18:04

My baby died on Tuesday 16 weeks into my pregnancy. Hw was a little boy, we called him Oscar. Feeling very sad and can't really cope with going into any detail right now.

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MrsMcJnr · 27/07/2007 09:51

Goingfor3 - my heart is breaking for you and filled with terror, when can any of us ever feel safe? it seems never. I am so very very sorry if I can do anything, please let me know.

Baffy · 27/07/2007 09:52

so sorry

FoghornLeghorn · 27/07/2007 09:53
Sad
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MrsWeasley · 27/07/2007 09:57

so sorry to hear this. Dont forget we are here if you need to "chat"
x

Dropdeadfred · 27/07/2007 09:58

So sorry to hear this. Wishing you strength and courage to get through these dark times.

lissie · 27/07/2007 09:58

i'm so very sorry, wish i could say something but please know i'm here for you if you need to chat/rant, take your time and grieve sweetheart.

ladylush · 27/07/2007 14:10

Goingfor3 I am so terribly sorry and sad to hear this. It is terrible to lose a baby at any stage but 16 weeks - almost half way through ............. no words can sum up how that must feel. Oscar is a lovely name. I hope you and your family are getting lots of support right now. Some things have really helped me since I lost mine at 12 weeks a fortnight ago so if/when you feel you might want to chat I will tell you about it. Big hugs xx

Hulababy · 27/07/2007 14:18

I am so sorry to hear that you have lost your precious Oscar. Thinking of you

Rainbowdays · 27/07/2007 15:32

This is Mum03, Goingfor3 - {{{hug}}}, I am so sorry to hear your news. You will miss Oscar the pain will be big, even though he was so small. I hurt for you goingfor 3, I had an early miscarriage just 3 weeks ago and now it looks like I am now having a chemical pregnancy. Even though my loss is miniscule compared to yours, I just feel stongly for you. We had our ttc cycles in sync, now we have lost together too. All I can say is take time for yourself now and I will be here if you need to have someone to listen.

ayrshirelolo · 27/07/2007 21:08

I don't really know what to say apart from how terribly sorry i am for you and your family. Please take care of yourself x

Budababe · 27/07/2007 21:13

Am so so sad for you.

onebadmother · 27/07/2007 21:14

I'm so sorry to hear about your son Oscar. All my love to you.

lovelylou · 28/07/2007 15:40

so sorry for your loss

jellybeans · 29/07/2007 19:34

I am so so sorry for the loss of your precious son, Oscar I have 4 special angels inc my precious daughter who was stillborn preterm at 20 weeks in january. Sending you many hugs xxx

3andnomore · 29/07/2007 19:43

You poor thing...must be such a difficult time for you right now!
Lots of ((((((((((cyberhugs))))))))))) your way....

Lizzer · 29/07/2007 20:09

So very sorry for you and your family

MrsFish · 29/07/2007 20:10

So very sorry

micegg · 30/07/2007 13:48

Sorry to hear your sad news.

Skyler · 30/07/2007 14:00

Oh no, so sorry

sparklesandwine · 30/07/2007 14:13

so, so sorry to hear your sad news

GibbonInARibbon · 30/07/2007 14:15

So sorry

Original poster
goingfor3 · 30/07/2007 17:32

Thanks everyone for all of your kind messages.

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barristermum · 01/08/2007 14:50

Hey going43, I had been on holiday and was catching up on our old thread when I came across your sad news - so so so so sorry. Heartbroken for you and yours. God bless you all and especially Oscar. Take care for your future. xxxxx

hertsnessex · 01/08/2007 15:07

im so sorry for you goingfor3, thinknig of you all and wishing you strength.

cx