My cousin had been missing for 8 months. On Valentine's Day his remains were found near a school. My uncle (his father) set up a group message to inform us of this but he let us know by posting the link to a Nick Cave song, and the the news broke the next day. It's been such an awful weekend. I've not known the words to say, and I know there are no words that can make this any better for him. He lives in America and we live in England so he's feel more isolated than ever. My Dad can't get out there to be with him and isn't computer savvy and is so scared to call as he doesn't know what to say. My uncle has been sending me a lot of YouTube songs to express how he is feeling. I wondered if anyone had any song suggestions I could send him back as he clearly needs his music right now. He's been sending a lot of Nick Cave and Iron & Wine. Does anyone have any suggestions of songs that help with grief (I realise it won't actually help with what he's feeling right now I just don't know how to word it what I mean) He's always been a deep person and loved Dylan, Tom Waits ect.