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My boyfriend just died

17 replies

ballsballsballs · 22/07/2018 01:52

We'd been having problems for a while and split up this morning on good terms. My last words to him were 'Look after yourself'.

The police have been round. They think he fell on the stairs at home about 9pm yesterday. I keep thinking it's just a bad dream and I'll wake up.

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WheresTheEvidence · 22/07/2018 01:57

Oh my goodness.

Thinking of you

whyme2018 · 22/07/2018 01:59

Are you with anyone? Can you call someone to come round?

Stimmyplip · 22/07/2018 02:01

I'm so sorry. Call someone to talk.

Samaritans 116 123

Cruse are open in the morning and are a dedicated bereavement helpline 0808 808 1677

Thanks
Meandyoumake2 · 22/07/2018 02:02

Hope you're ok definitely call someone. Thinking of you Flowers

ballsballsballs · 22/07/2018 02:09

Thank you. X

I've got a friend here, the police brought her round.

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Stimmyplip · 22/07/2018 02:14

Call someone too. Maybe the bereavement place tomorrow. Or there's lots of others. They will really, really help you. X

DramaAlpaca · 22/07/2018 02:17

I'm so sorry.

kateandme · 22/07/2018 02:28

im confused you split up this morning but he fell yesterday?

SarahH12 · 22/07/2018 02:43

Oh my goodness. I'm so sorry! I can't imagine what you must be going through right now.

Is there anything you'd like to talk about? I'm so glad you have a friend there with you Flowers

asprinklingofsugar · 22/07/2018 02:50

Flowers for you. I'm glad you're not alone, and have someone to talk to. And although I'm sure it will be a struggle, please try to take care of yourself, or let someone else take care of you in the coming days and weeks.

Kate perhaps op hasn't been to bed yet? So for her they split up this morning, ie Saturday morning as she hasn't been to bed and woken up on Sunday morning yet? And if the police came round after midnight they could have said that it happened yesterday around 9pm, again meaning Saturday, as they were being aware of/factual about the fact that technically it is now Sunday, and op has perhaps simply quoted what they told her. It's the only explanation I can think of.

feathermucker · 22/07/2018 02:50

So sorry for your loss

lostfrequencies · 22/07/2018 03:03

Massive hugs x

ballsballsballs · 22/07/2018 03:05

Kate everything happened on Saturday. We split in the morning, he died in the evening, the police came round about midnight.

I'm all over the place.

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cafenoirbiscuit · 22/07/2018 03:12

Hot sweet tea, and plenty of it. xxxxxx

Blogwoman · 22/07/2018 03:22

What a terrible thing and a dreadful shock. Glad you have a friend there & people are listening here. Flowers

moredoll · 22/07/2018 03:27
Flowers I'm so sorry for your loss.

Cruse are open in the morning and are a dedicated bereavement helpline 0808 808 1677

dontknowwhattodo80 · 22/07/2018 08:11

So sorry for your loss Sadx

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