I am contemplating at which risk I should opt for invasive antenatal testing like CVS or amnio. It comes down to weighting the risk due to being uncertain (I would want to know even if I carry to term) against the risk of miscarriage. I know the statistics but was wondering if anybody would be willing to share their or their closes friends story about mc after invasive tests. Would the do it again? Was it likely caused by an inexperienced doctor or just chance? I hope this is not too painful.