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Lost my baby daughter , need some advice on life now

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MummyOfAnAngelxx · 02/10/2017 21:55

Hi All,
I lost my baby girl 2 months ago she was 2.5 months old and the most beautiful thing I've ever seen.
I am really struggling with her death I put on that brace front but all I want is my daughter I have yet to meet someone who is in the same situation or has been as at the support group I went to the parents had all had miscarriages ( which of course is still very traumatic ) but really am looking for some advice on what to do with my self, I went back to work as I thought it was the best thing to do but it's just made me more depressed.
I would love another child but boyfriend isn't up for it.
It's come to a stage where I don't know my self worth, if I'm not a mummy I'm nothing she was everything I wanted out of life and she was taken from me by fate.
So please if anyone had any advice on this please talk to me, I'm still very young but I feel like my calling in life is to be a mam is it too soon for me ? Boyfriend isn't up for it ? No one to talk to ? Counselling didn't do anything :(
Help please x

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Iamchanging · 18/10/2017 16:22

I just wanted to say a huge sorry to all of the mums going through this. I lost my baby girl a week ago, she was stillborn. Like you I am dreading the idea of Christmas, and just don't really know what to do with myself for the best x

MollyHuaCha · 18/10/2017 19:20

So sad.
Flowers for all the grieving families here. Thinking of you.

Iamchanging · 18/10/2017 19:33

Sorry everyone, I've kind of ruined the lighthearted nature of the thread. Thank you for all the kind wishes and Flowers to those also suffering illness / bereavement. Now please don't let my rubbishness derail the moany thread!

Iamchanging · 18/10/2017 19:47

I'm so sorry, in my lack of sleep / emotional state I posted the below on the wrong thread. Please ignore x

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