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This time tommorow my lovely Nan wont be here.......

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Nemo2007 · 15/03/2007 19:35

...I cant stop crying, have spent all afternoon with her and she is a husk of her former self. They have said she will be gone by tommorow

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VioletBaudelaire · 15/03/2007 22:06

is there anyone with you, nemo?

Nemo2007 · 15/03/2007 22:13

yes thanks DH is here and now have a crying DD1 on my knee as she is teething and DD2 in moses basket next to me..lol Only one missing is ds

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Nemo2007 · 15/03/2007 22:13

yes thanks DH is here and now have a crying DD1 on my knee as she is teething and DD2 in moses basket next to me..lol Only one missing is ds

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Beauregard · 15/03/2007 22:15

sorry to hear this Nemo

melsy · 15/03/2007 22:21

Sorry for your loss nemo ((((((((((((((((()))))))))))))). Even though she may be gone in body , shell always be around in spirit.

LilyLoo · 16/03/2007 10:22

Any news Nemo ?

JodieG1 · 16/03/2007 10:24

Thinking of you Nemo (hugs)

geekgrrl · 16/03/2007 10:25

so sorry nemo

Nbg · 16/03/2007 10:36

Awww Nemo.
So sorry

As melsy said, she will always be with you.

CheesyFeet · 16/03/2007 11:06

Oh Nemo, how sad, I really feel for you

I was in a similar situation a few years ago and I remember how awful it was just waiting to hear.

Take care of yourself

x

Nemo2007 · 16/03/2007 13:28

Nothing changed as yet. Someone phoned at 8am this morning of course caused much panicking etc but think it was just a cold caller.

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AnAngelWithin · 16/03/2007 13:29

thinking of you x x x

tortoise · 16/03/2007 13:30

Sorry to hear this Nemo

Pinkchampagne · 16/03/2007 13:32

So sorry to hear this, Nemo.

princessmelon · 16/03/2007 13:34

nemo

My nan died last year aged 100. My ds said things similar to your son like 'now she can play with the aliens'. He thinks heaven is the same as space. Its all in the sky to him.

kimi · 16/03/2007 13:59

Thinking of you Nemo.
xx

stoppinattwo · 16/03/2007 20:12

Am here nemo if you need, just call me and I will come over (((((hugs)))))

nikkie · 16/03/2007 20:19

(((Nemo)))

jollymum · 16/03/2007 20:20

Thinking of you, your family and your gran. I hope that when she leaves this earth she will be released from pain and that you will be too.

bonkerz · 16/03/2007 20:24

Nemo, i am so sorry to hear this babe. I remember the night i left my mum knowing she wouldnt make it through the night. Light a candle and keep it burning. Its at times like this you have to be strong and believe that where your nan is going to is a far better place. She will never leave you, i know my mum is with us and probably knows DD very well. Sending you strength, love and ((cuddles))

Mummy2TandF · 16/03/2007 20:25

Oh Nemo (((((hugs)))), my nan is also like a mum to me a reading your post has really brought things home to me that she won't be here forever Please look after yourself and your dc's, at least they are too young to fully understand, sometimes I envy the simplicity of the lo's

LilyLoo · 17/03/2007 09:01

Still in our thoughts Nemo. Especially going into this weekend will probably make it that bit harder x

Nemo2007 · 17/03/2007 14:49

She has gone, passed away a few minutes ago

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beansprout · 17/03/2007 14:52

I'm so sorry for your loss Nemo xx

Tortington · 17/03/2007 14:52

i am so very sorry for your loss. no words xxxxx

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