Our best man died suddenly

[mrscatmad31]

We got married in December and last week our best man died suddenly
he was crushed by his own car
I thought I was a strong person and have dealt with grief before but this has really hit me badly
he was such a lovely man and can't believe I won't see him again

I'm so sorry for your loss.

An unexpected death is always a shock to the system however strong you are, accept your emotions as they are and be kind to yourself, your dh and to others you know who will also be feeling this loss.

x

oh god that's terrible.
sorry for your loss.

That's awful! So sorry.

Thanks, so glad we were out with him the weekend before it happened, and we have all the photos from the wedding
just miss him

Oh my love, I'm so sorry.
It must be such a huge shock to you all.
Would you like to tell us about him, I know this sometimes helps.

Thank you it's good to talk about it
he was a very funny and clever man but he was quite shy, I feel really sad that he hadn't found anyone to share his life with
we used to go on trips out for pub crawls and we had a real laugh
just makes you realise how delicate life is really

So very sad x x

a week ago today we found out about our friend dying, today I got my bfp
really happy,but sad he never got to know

Congratulations - glad you've got something to smile about.

Yeah its nice to be smiling again :-)