My dad is dying, 2 weeks after grandpa died - how to tell kids

[felttippens]

Especially my eldest, 14 yr old dd took the death of her 89 yr old grandpa so badly, the funeral was only a week ago and now my 63 year old has suddenly gone downhill and looks like we're nearing the end of a 3 year battle with bowel cancer - liver lung and bone mets.

He lives over an hour away and I'm going to be with him tomorrow but not sure how much to tell the kids? If I decide not to how can I disguise my upset etc

Thanks

Bump

only you will know how much to tell your kids op

but IME kids are pretty resiliant

my ds1 has been to 4 funerals in his short life, it breaks my heart, but kids seem to be quite straightforward about things

ds2 broke his heart at my mums funeral

I'm sorry, I know you want specific advise in there difficult times, but I'd only say go with your heart and be as honest with your kids as you can

and I' sorry for your losses , bereavment is so very hard xx

Check out the winstons wish website...some helpful ideas on there.
I'm very sorry for your trouble x